My girl’s friend wants me to get freaky with her

Dear Pastor,

I am 34 years old and my girlfriend is 24. She has never had children, but I have two children with two different women.

I am what people call half-white. My father is white but my mother is only of light complexion. My girlfriend is also of light complexion. She lives in Jamaica and I come to see her every other month. She recently started working in the hotel that I stay at when I am in Jamaica. She considers me crazy because I like to suck her toes and other parts of her body. She says that no other man has ever done that to her. But I like this girl so much.

One of her friends went out with us for drinks and while my girlfriend was in the women's room, her friend told me that my girlfriend told her what I like to do to her and she would love for me to do these things to her too. I was surprised that my girlfriend told her these things. I told her that I did not want to get involved with any other woman, and I do these things to my girlfriend because I consider her to be special in my life.

What I do to my girlfriend is something I have done for many years, even to the mothers of my children. My children's mothers and I broke up because I found them to be unfaithful. I supported my children and I am still doing so now, but these women use the child support on themselves. I would love to marry this girl in Jamaica. She does not ask me for much, but I don't wait on her to ask me because I know what she makes is not much, and I don't want her to go astray. So far, the reports that I am getting from the people at the hotel is that she is a good girl.

What do you say on what I have written? Jamaican women are really lovely.

L.H.

Dear L.H.,

Some folks may consider you weird, while others would describe your type of lovemaking as normal.

Many women suck the toes of their men and men suck the toes of their women. It is their fetish. Some people like it and some don't. You take great delight in doing these things and other things that I do not wish to mention. I doubt that it is because of your race why you engage in such behaviour.

Your Jamaican girlfriend evidently was bragging about you to her friend and now the friend would like to have the experience too. If you are going to make this Jamaican girl your wife, try your best not to get involved with her friend. Tell your girlfriend not to discuss whatever both of you do in private. That is all I have to say on this matter.

Pastor